You are so incredibly loved by the one who made you!!!


I kept writing about everything and nothing. Basically about most trivial things. But what a shame it would be, if I can’t write something about my own mother. What is the point of me holding the pen if I don’t get to write about my mom.  Her birthday fell recently and I thought of penning down a bit about the hero in my life.

I know she won’t get to see this article. Doesn’t matter! We shall not praise good people only in their presence. What matters is that what we say behind their back. I have no shame telling the world Continue reading “You are so incredibly loved by the one who made you!!!”

Exclusively For Ladies

Exclusively for Not-Yet Married Ladies………!!!

Stop judging me for making this not-yet married scenario the best out of everything. Or, forgive me if I’m putting so much of stress on the fact of being single is better! (Which counts either having or not having a boyfriend) I mean when everybody is talking about getting involved, giving much importance to attachments or dreaming about a Prince Charming, there should be someone at least telling the world about the bright side of ‘not-getting married’ so soon. Because out there, many girls who are passing their mid-twenties are worrying about not getting married yet.

What is it like this?

You get two options. Either get yourself a man and hurry into the marriage, or stay single for a while. (While you can *a wink*) Depending on your choice, (and some say their destiny) you are measured by your friends, relatives, neighbours and sometimes even by your parents. Given that you have a boyfriend, oh they say, your life must be all fun and cool. People are great assumers! They have always been! Because they have been taught to think, once you get a guy, oh well, you get everything. Boom!

Not so easy kind of a life!

Just because you have a man, it doesn’t mean you have got all the happiness in the world. That all the joys are in your corner! The common known fact is every relationship has its own ups and downs. Nobody is perfect. No relationship is ever flowers and sparks. They fight, constantly, continuously! Until it makes some sort of sense. Or even after that! Just because a couple is going on dates every day, having all the day to themselves, dining at finest restaurants, they cannot be happy all 24/7. I mean, there are happy couples out there, but you should know that no couple is stress- free or fight-free! They have their own complications and over-thinkings giving them reasons to create new fights. So, that is the way. For them, what matters is how they decide to calm all their storms surviving all this long.

What is your blessing?

To tell you the truth, there are some perks of being on your own for a quite some time. No extra-stress in life! You get your own ups and downs! You learn to do things on your own, which eventually turns you into a strong warrior! Well, you come so independent and confident. Because you know, all this long, it has only been you and you.

Your own time is your best time.

Who said that you should be getting married by the age of 25? Hell no! if you can’t get married by the age 25, just start thinking of the brightest side of it. Consider your 25 as the best age to be an independent woman. That you get time to take care of yourself but nobody else. And in a way that nobody will ever do it for you. Seriously, it’s okay to be selfish for yourself sometimes.

Make yourself a priority!

Put yourself on the top of everything. You are way too young to be careless of yourself. The times on your own are the times of growth and best. Remember that this time will never come and do whatever that will please you. Wear some fancy clothes. May be a mini skirt or a bikini, if it’s possible to wear. Who cares! Nobody will. Put some make up on your face and apply a bright lipstick. Buy some quality shoes. Take yourself on dates. Go to fine restaurants in town. Go shopping alone. Buy expensive clothes sometimes and eat cake and cheese and drink some wine too. This is the time that god has given you to think of you with extra care and to treat yourself beautifully. And I’m telling you again, this time will never come!

Enjoy every ounce of it!

Enjoy the time spending in your own room where you can spend some half an hour time wrapped in a towel after a fresh shower. May be sipping a hot coffee. Staring at the walls and thinking about everything and nothing. You get no husband to wait until he gets home, or to pick up dirty clothes to put in the washing machine. To make some dishes for dinner. To rush all the little little things, because you get your kid on the cradle and the toddler needs another round of breast-feeding. Just imagine! You get no issues. What is your problem then?

Not a critique!

I am not being offensive over the marriage life scenario. Marriage is beautiful. Motherhood is amazing. When you get somebody to share your everything that is way too amazing. But what if you are not ready or you could not get settled by this age. I see no point of wasting that time for wishing and day-dreaming over what you do not have right now. Whatever means to come your way, will come for you for sure. Everything will be so nicely perfect and you will be so happy when it’s the time.

Fill that void phase with something better!

Let’s think of better plans. We can make a mini-plan for the next few years of your life. (Let’s say until you get married) you are never too late to start a degree. Or a diploma may be. Or some sort of a course. That would be the best investment of all time. Take yourself on trips; alone and with your girl gang. Have night outs and some sleepovers. Go clubbing, even if you feel like doing. Do whatever your heart says. Single life is too short to enjoy as you please.

Perfect life ahead……..

Always remember to have a balance in your energy; what you put out there for your own breed of feminine and for masculine species as well (it could either be your BOYFRIEND or some male friends). Step into the marriage someday, as a warrior like who has spent a life time alone and being strong. Imagine yourself as a happy female, which would eventually shape you into a cool wife and perfect mom. Your life will be amazing. Age is just a number. Nobody said 25 is the perfect age for marriage. People get married even at 32 and have kids at 35. God has already mapped out your beautiful life. Let whatever thing to come to your life. Take good vibes and breathe out the negative. Life will be still so PERFECT when you feel like enjoying it.

Texting is not really what you all have ever thought of…….


BBC never ceases inspiring me to write more and more on contemporary, much more appealing stuffs to our kind of generation. Today, my mind makes an abrupt halt when I was going through an article on BBC Today which read about the effects of getting addicted to texting.

There comes a phase where the world of youth is severely addicted to transcribe ideas starting from their one single thought to big conversations by using various type of electronic equipment, if the idea is to be more concrete.

Texting is easier than anything……

Hey yes! Of course. Who would say no?! Imagine you are presented at an important meeting where using mobile phones are prohibited. Your phone is ringing and it’s your mom. You know you dad has been sick for days and you on the other hand, have been wondering about his critical condition. You can’t take this urgent call because it’s not allowed depending on that particular context. But still you are capable of sending a text message to her and asking ‘ what is so urgent? ‘ Yes, you can still communicate in situations like this, thanks to SMS (Short Message Service).

To be honest, interaction created through texting has taken the world into a complete new level. So as human relationships.

It’s so addictive!

No wonder, even you might find sending text messages are way too easier than talking either in real meeting or over the telephone. Once you experience the comfort in texting, you never want to switch into making phone calls unless the situation is very needy or inevitable.

Personally, I find texting very comfortable than taking calls, as it always consumes my time, energy and money as well. The truth is even I, who is talking great deal about the unhealthy side of texting, has become a victim of the same thing. Once you feel the comfort and ease, you can never get rid of it and you never want to.


Let’s say 10 years back in time, the (de-)evolution of human interaction began to commence in a different way. People, especially youth were used to send direct text messages to communicate via SMS which was so popular by then. Starting from the instant messaging app ICQ, the Google talk and, later on WhatsApp, Viber and Messenger, Line, Snapchat, Imo, Skype in a row where texting is available, instant and super-fast, the world has unconsciously stepped into a whole new level.

Remember when Smart Phones were firstly introduced?! Youth were going so mad over it and started chatting with each other like maniacs on WhatsApp and Viber. Gradually the web became larger and most of the population started using smart phones where chatting options are highly featured and functioned in an easy accessible way.

To make a quick trip down my memory lane of instant messaging, I was so excited to use Viber for the first time. It was so primitive compared to now but I was so excited thinking of the perks and how instantly I could communicate with my friends. Starting my cyber journey from Viber, today my mainstream has transformed into WhatsApp which I use 24/7.

So easy! So fast!

Who ever thought that communicating via these instant messaging apps would be so easy and super-fast like this? It’s like you have all your favourite or not-so favourite contacts at your reachable length and what you have to do is to connect your smart phone to internet. Tada! You can chat with anybody at any time of the day and you can even send pictures or whatever. There are those cute images like e-stickers called ‘emoji’ where you can reflect your current mood to the other person whereas you can add some vibrancy and peppiness to your conversations.

So, that is the Brightside of the instant messaging apps where you can connect with the world within few second.

What’s so bad about texting?

Even though, I myself am kind of an addict of texting (WhatsApping), I sometimes fear that all our live interactions will be faded away by the time. Yes, we all like being comfy in interaction. There, texting is a plus point. But still, there are some cons that we may experience later in life. Like, getting detached from people, loosening confidence meeting people in flesh and being less creative in life.

Is it wonderful when doing all your conversations than meeting somebody in flesh? Where you look at the eyes of the other and carry on the conversation! I mean, at least can you even feel the emotions which are supposed to trigger during your conversations on WhatsApp? It’s like your vocal cords are replaced by the keyboard and all your emotions are replaced by those emoji stickers. The letters simply voice your mind transcribing your thoughts on the screen where your liveliness and animation are stolen by these social networking services. You mute your voice by letting your keyboard to speak your mind which disables your actual spirit meanwhile.

Decay of Language!

With the evolution of social networking services, mostly English language seems to be devolusionised up to a certain level on its contrary. Just because it is way too easier not to type word in its full form, youth tend to omit letters and create new words (which cannot be considered as standard forms). As for examples; ‘you’ is typed as u, ‘yours’ as urs, ‘we’ as v, to as 2 , ‘from’ as frm, ‘okay’ as K and ‘thnks’ as thx.  There are some slang words as well which are often used while texting; LOL (Laughing Out Loud), FYI (For Your Information), OMG (Oh My God), RIP (Rest In Peace), DM (Direct Message).

The method is so good, but the impact on the language is not so good. It can be seen among the youth, a non-standard terms of language are used in formal settings.

Talk more, type less!

It doesn’t matter even if it is a phone call where you get to talk to the other. Once you limit your texting habit, I’m telling you, all your interactions will not be so boring. Try interacting with your voice and actual spirit. You will certainly find new dimensions of your relationships with whomever you talk with. Because your favourite cyber space is not so pleasant always and you will miss out lot of things in life!

Imperfection is beautiful ♥️

The idea of having a perfect life is some sort of a myth, I suppose. Nothing is perfect in a world like this which is prone to get cracked at any possible moment. Nobody is perfect and everybody is just beautiful in the way they are. Despite the worldly norm keeps going like this, many cling into the belief that they can find perfection in some things they do, hope, and expect or in certain people.

Too much of hope?

Is it good enough to be extremely hopeful in your expectations of perfection? Like, you expecting somebody to be super perfect in the relationship that he/she has with you… Like, you trying to find somebody who is super perfect in almost everything… Like, you hoping to see only the best, or rather perfection in everything you do… Hope is good. It sounds perfect. But keeping up the hope of perfection in everything is not so healthy, I suggest.

Hope of Perfection is threatening!

In a world full of imperfections, expectation of perfection is certainly an unhealthy idea. When you put too much of hope in something you guess that you won’t get wholly, totally or just in the way you want it, it becomes a threat to your sanity. Because the moment you lose it, or you don’t feel the idea of perfection anymore you get devastated. Desperate. And then you begin to act like you lose your whole world which eventually would kill the peace in your mind.

Your flaws shape YOU!

Nobody is flawless. Your flaws are not something that you should feel ashamed of.  Flaws do not define you as loser. Flaws are beautiful. But only you are aware of it and you try to get over them. You had flaws means you had faults, and you have learned. In a way, flaws make you perfect, but not a perfectionist. Learning through your own faults is beautiful more than you ever thought. You learn to realize in what junctions of life you had been wrong. Why the downfalls happened and why you need to get up, wipe your tears and start over one more time.

May be the God made people imperfect in one way or the other, because he wants this world to be beautiful and different, in a way people may not understand at all.

Because you master your soul ♥️

—It matters not how strait the gate,

How charged with punishments the scroll,

I am the master of my fate:

I am the captain of my soul ˜

First in public quoted by Winston Churchill and later dragged by Nelson Mandela and Barrack Obama in their speeches, I caught my eye at this stanza written by William Ernest Henley in his poem — Invictus ˜ (1875), while I was scrolling down few articles on BBC today. It’s been more than hundred years since he penned the lines, yet the ultimate reality in life is engulfed in an inspirational way. It is surprisingly amazing the meaning lying underneath those few lines is highly relatable even for today. The lines divulge the agonised life story of the death-pained Henley when he was suffering from Tuberculosis, the history says.

The lines quoted by me, I found it as a true inspiration for the life at its darkest moments while travelling through the most narrow valleys in life. Life is not always flowery and sparkling. Once in a while in life, you happen to go through few storms and hurricanes where you lose even the hope in life. You give up almost in everything. You lose faith in God. You start considering yourself as a misery. A damage that is beyond repair. You feel your pain in life and the worst part of it is, it’s tangible. You lose confidence in life. You start fearing the world. You want to be isolated in a corner where nobody can see you, and now you are invisible. The reason behind all these reactions is certainly one thing.  You are scared of getting hurt again and again. You are stabbed, badly. By evil words and mistreats. You are scared of the world, you are scared of everybody. You become cornered and alienated.

Is that who really you are?

Nooooo, right?

– Once you had been a warrior. But now you have forced yourself to forget it. You had so much of super power. But at this point in life, you refuse to see the hidden energy. Because you’re scared and tired. Tired of trying, hoping and praying. You blame God, because your prayers have not been heard.

Is that the real problem?

– Who says yes? All you need is a recap of how you had been few years ago. There was no one to help you out to take you out from the dark alleys. Well, there might have been family and few friends then. How dare you forget them now? Some would still stick with you. Some would still choose you over any circumstance. Over anyone. If there is nobody left, then fine! You are brave enough to go through it, but this time alone. You will be okay, as you always have been.

How can you gather your ‘once lost faith and strength?

The answer is clear. Crystal. Because you know,

‘’ I am the master of my fate:

  I am the captain of my soul ‘’

You need to believe the fact that you still have the spark. The spark to glow yourself. What is that use of having spark and energy without using it?

You can restore your energy once again. You can bloom again. Like a bud blossoming slowly in the spring into a beautiful flower. Healing takes time. It takes time to mend broken pieces. You can be the warrior again. You can get the superpower coming from the sky to gear you up. You shall know that you are the master of your own destiny.

So starting from today, right now, set your mark! Get ready for the longest run and start running!

Bon Voyage!

Geminis All the Way from Life…….


Truth is that I neither believe so much in astrology, nor I completely look down the subject. Yet there are moments when I feel like trusting it and look bit deeper into the field. Like any other Sri Lankan who does not happen to be an atheist, I like knowing and learning new things, and when it comes to Astrology my curiosity always pops up from the deep heart’s core.

Sometimes, I get my horoscope read by a personal astrologer and she kept predicting things like nothing. I said I’m not a strong believer in Astrology. But when she predicts something, I am like looking forward it to happen, and at the end it happens. I don’t know whether it’s my mind or destiny, it happens anyway. Sometimes, therefore, I marvel at her superpower of forecasting things in times, even when I didn’t get any clues. When there were not any kinds of traces of such things. I repeat, but the things happened as they had already been planned by the horoscope.

Well, this is again something about zodiac signs. As well as my urge in learning about what my horoscope says (which is very normal), I have that craze in knowing about people through their zodiac signs. I’m a soft but stubborn Capricorn by birth. But for the most of my life, I am constantly surrounded by Geminis. At different phases of my life, I tend to get entangled with Geminis with long term relationships.

I came to this world with a blood sealed relationship with an alpha Gemini. Yes, my Dad is a Gemini and he means it. When I started schooling, I got another Gemini girl. She is sweet as hell, but on the contrary with an inconsistent mind-set.  With the former, I was born to share a life-long relationship; the latter eventually became my best friend for life. I have been dealing with her for 21 years and the time has really been amazing upto now and. As a friend, she is loyal in every possible form, and has always got my back. Despite the inconsistency which constantly guides her, leaving her at situations in dilemmas, she still sticks to the friendship through thick and thin. Eventually, I chose a job and got settled in it. There’s another Gemini who happens to be my work-mate who later became one of my good friends. She is sensitive in many contexts and picky. Yet the emotional support I’m getting from her in most needful situation proves the fact that life with Geminis could be utterly interesting. Eventually we two became good friends and she turns into the solace in my workplace. Great Geminis all the way!

And the great story about Geminis began nearly three years ago, when a guy whom I never imagined of, whom I never happened to came across few years back in class, chose to be the love of my life. He is sensitive as hell and good as God, and only God knows his superpower in love. His demeanour, being a Gemini has always been very comprehensive for me as I have already been sharing different kind of relationships with Geminis all the way from my childhood. At times, he is becomes an exact replica of my father, whose mind is inconsistent, giving orders but taking none, and the one who wants to get whatever thing done only in his way. He, like my dad, do not like conflicts or heat. They won’t stick to heated environment, but their sword like cutting words will pierce from one rib cage to the other. All the Geminis I have come across this far are exactly the same.

Geminis are picky. Very much. But when they pick the one they make the strongest ally, with whom you can fight against the whole world.  When it comes to building relationships, if the love is real, and they can feel it, they give all. When in love, it could be all or none. But their shy-self reflects their loyalty because it’s real.  It’s really fun to watch them growing by my side, with their own rules in their small worlds.

As far, dealing with Geminis might not be easy. You need understanding and patience which would be enough to deal with them. Life with a Gemini is certainly amazing, because you get the strength you are putting in them but most importantly that is unconditional.

Most Ten Amazing Things that Sri Lankan All-Girls’ School Girls Do

Girls’ world is a fusion of subtlety and mischief. Simply, it is a practical madhouse, filled with giggles, laughter, fooling and gossips. Have you ever heard a bunch of girls talking like endless fountains? Or have you ever eavesdropped when they gossip? (Oh God! You should) no world is insane than girls’ world. Can you ever imagine about the madness that an All-Girls’ school has? If you studied in a mix school with your opposite sex, you would never believe the fun they have with a whole set of the same gender.

Yes, it’s too exciting in someone’s teen age to study in a mix school, where you will get caught to the thousand glances of your opposite sex. Yet, it’s way too unbelievable when it comes to the fun side that All-Girls’ School girls have. Some might think, it’s way too boring to study in a Girls’ School where you’ll never meet any guy of your age. But, believe us, when we say, it’s seriously awesome. Because, there are some amazing stuffs that All-Girls’ School girls do even there isn’t a single trace of boys.

  1. Male Actors

You’ll never believe when we say girls are super excellent at acting as males. When a Girls’ School has boyish girls (who act like boys with too much of spirit) and when they are pretty good at acting, we never had to worry. We had dramas and there were boys in them. But we never had that trouble of getting ‘actual boys’ for those roles. Because us girls are always best at acting as boys. What we just wanted was a sarong or a short with a baggy shirt, and paint a mustache and make the voice little too rough and no one believed that it was actually a girl.

  1. Building up houses for Sports meet

 Some might argue, it’s only males who are best at carpentering and building up stuffs. No! Have you ever seen the houses that All-girls’ School girls build up for their sports meets? Being a part of that feminine community for a long period of time, we know by our very experiences, girls are super smart at doing such manly things. There were girls to carry big tree trunks, tree leaves and other whatnot. There was another set of pretty girls to weave the coconut leaves, to mix up clay and build up beautiful mini houses which are truly amazing. We never had that need of a boy to help out with such stuffs. Because those delicate hands were smart enough even to build up mansions

  1. Bongo players in trips

 A school trip of a Girls’ School is not that boring as you think. If you are a boy you might say, “Oh, they are just girls and their trips must be really boring. Who’s there at least to play a bongo? ” No Boys! You are wrong. You should see an All-Girls’ School girls tripping. We had guitarists. We had drummers. We had best singers. And even dancers. What more do we girls actually need to break the boredom of a trip? The thought of needing a boy to play our bongos has never crossed our minds. We had all the fun in the trip and still they were the best.

  1. Cutting Periods

Generally, girls are supposed to be the good students who should study all througheight periods and be the puppies of teachers. (usually in a mix school ) You can never expect such decency from an All-Girls’ School. Girls too, don’t like to glue to a chair and listen to all the blabbering a teacher would say. Boredom hit them too. That’s when they decide to cut periods. In a Gils’ School, you can see girls wandering here and there at random times. One set might be in the washrooms as they all have that super emergency of going to the toilette at once. You can find another set at the canteen gobbling pancakes or licking ice creams. The most cunning set can be found in the library. They act like they have that thirst of exploring knowledge. (what they actually do is reading a romantic novel or a crappy newspaper which is super useless ) Yes! Girls are like that and we got that fun going to an All-Girls’ School.

  1. Endless Joking Times

 A class room full of girls is like a mad house. They tease each other with naughty jokes, which is actually hilarious. Then, think of a school filled only with girls! Chatty girls are usually naughty at joking. They tease their friends by shouting them the names of their crushes. Sometimes they don’t hesitate to reveal it to the whole class and then the whole class would be chanting the name of the crush. These kind f naughty girls don’t think twice to crack jokes even to their male teachers. And the teachers determine to tolerate those sweet jokes in the name of their innocence. Yet, the fun was there……and girls know how to turn a boring class room into a super awesome madhouse.

  1. Random Leaves

It’s not only boys who take secret random leaves from school to home or to any hell. Boys are most famous for jumping over the school walls. Girls’ escapes are not that harsh yet considerable as mischiefs. The old security uncle has always been blindfolded by the pretty smiles of these naughty girls. One girl asks for something impractical from the security uncle, and while he is busy searching for it, girls secretly take their supersonic moves. When the kind security uncle returns with a big smile on his face, the girls are already disappeared and they are nowhere to be found. The security uncle never discovers the secret and girls are still safe as ever.

  1. They are their own decorators

 When there is a special event at school, we become more helpful and generous than ever. We begin to think of the ways to offer our helping hands with all the heart for decorations, arranging chairs and even for cleaning. You are over enthusiastically engaged in work where your presence is least expected. No one will betray you by slandering to the teacher that you are uselessly spending your time at such things. The most amazing thing here is, the half of the class will be encouraged by this and you’ll get number of followers to cut periods without any hesitation. Because girls are really good at covering up things for the sake of their friendship. Even during the Wesak, girls decorate the entire school with the lanterns, buckets & beautiful decorations made by themselves. Girls in All-Girls’ Schools are that much smart and they do not even think of guys to help them out.

  1. Painters & Technicians

How much fun we had just by holding a paint brush all the day back in school. At the beginning of every year, teachers ask us to paint all the desks, chairs cupboards, bookshelves and whatnot. Since there are no any boys, girls become painters willingly. When a whole set of pretty girls with giggles group together, they don’t even remember the tiredness. Everything is painted keenly and nicely than ever. In a school full of girls, why do they need a guy to change a bulb? There are girls who are really good at electrical stuffs. Even they don’t know what to do with such spanners and all, they love to act s professionals. The fun and experience they get doing such things is really worthy for the rest of their lives.

  1. Secretive Diets

Girls always have that burning flame of hunger. They seriously hate to hear their tummies screaming all the time asking for something to eat. There is nothing bigger that would upset girls. So, when they want to stuff themselves, they don’t waste another moment to gobble something. That’s when their secretive diets start. It could be happened during a science period, or while you are struggling with algebra quizzes. Or perhaps your history teacher might be yelling in front of the classroom. But when the hunger hits you, none of thosethings matter.The bravest girls would even go to the school cafeteria in between the periods before the interval. Even though the teacher has begun the lesson before you enter the class, you will have the chance to sneak through the door with the immense support given by the other girls. They will nicely cooperate with your secretive diet.

  1. Imitating teachers

Girls are really good at imitating their teachers. Specially those who study in All-Girls’ Schools. They aren’t reluctant to imitate the actions of their meanest teachers. They would proudly present how they were scolded by the particular teacher while imitating their gestures. The teachers whom they can’t stand will be surely victimized by the sarcastic acting of these naughty girls. They even imitate the way they walk and talk along with the exact facial expressions. These All-Girls’ School girlsare very best at imitating frequently used phrases of their teachers to make it easy for their friends to identify the victimized teacher.





His Love ♥️

( A poetic snippet of our Love Story )

His Love,

I could see it


in his sulks…..

His care,

It was there


in his rage……

His joy,

It was visible


in my smiles 😍

Find your solace in life 💜

Who would not want the solace in life? When life gets harder and when you feel like it is enough, all you need is to sit somewhere alone and ponder deeply. Or not to ponder on anything but just to stare at the night sky for hours. Life is perfect that way. When you give more time for yourself, you can take care of your broken heart. You can mend its broken little pits. All you need is to have a little time for yourself. Just to relax yourself. To concentrate on yourself. That’s when you can find the missing pieces of your life. When you are alone, and under a very beautiful night sky with zillion of shiny stars, you will be able to think of your life. Again. With peace. What breaks you into pieces. What brings joy into your life. Who makes you happy everyday. Why you can’t handle some things in your life. Why can’t you keep up your smile every single minute. So blithely. You will be thinking of the meaning of this life. What adds value to it. How it becomes so precious. Take few minutes for yourself. You will realize what makes you happier at the end of the day. You will know what to treasure. The stars will inspire you to seek new directions in life. The tranquility of night will give you better hopes. The silent sky will teach you to embrace the value of your life. 

Long Distance Love

True love is one kind of an adventure. A long distance relationship will rather be the biggest adventure of all. one must be so strong, confident and faithful to hold on to your partner. To hold on to your long distanced relationship. I, myself am in a long distance relationship. It is through that I learned, love is all about the loyalty that you choose to keep up. It’s all about the commitments you are willing to do for each other. To hold on to such relationship, you should possess a hell of confident. You don’t get to see each other so often. You don’t get to feel the warmth, to hold hands, to cuddle, to have walks or to smell each other so often. You have to wait months, or may be years to get a single kiss on your forehead, yet the moments you spend without seeing each other feels like an eternity. You wait. Wait. And. Wait.

Continuous missing thoughts, late night phone calls, little silly doubts, tears you shed, smiles you shared despite the miles between you, make you the strongest warrior in true love. You learn to stay loyal, even though you are having a very hard time due to distractions that continuously come your way. People might spread rumors which may lead you to doubt your love. People might say not to get committed to somebody whom you can’t even see every day. People will keep giving reasons you to leave. they will say that it is not even worth your time. But deep inside you know, you would fight the demons. Because you know, every single minute is worth waiting.

They say, ” Love penetrate miles, zip codes and state lines ”, and truly it does. In my relationship, I have found my comfortable zone where we feel much easier as two different individuals. We stand alone, but for each other. We know and we do worth our love. The fact of being in a very long distance relationship does not throw us any kind of stones which would break it into pieces. For both of us, that phase has gone. We survived and still we do. Because ever since the first feeling we got for this love, we knew we can survive, and will surely do.